Covalent bonding: sharing instead of transferring
When two non-metals meet, neither will give up electrons — both need to gain. So they share instead.
A covalent bond is a shared pair of electrons.
Say pair. "Shared electrons" on its own is often not credited, because the pair is the unit.
What holds the atoms together
The shared pair is negative. Each nucleus is positive. The pair sits between the two nuclei and is attracted to both at once, and that attraction is the bond.
Notice it is not an attraction between the two atoms. Both nuclei are positive and would repel each other; it is the shared electrons in the middle that hold everything together.
How many bonds an atom forms
Count how many electrons it needs to fill its outer shell.
| Atom | Outer electrons | Needs | Bonds formed |
|---|---|---|---|
| Carbon | 4 | 4 | 4 |
| Nitrogen | 5 | 3 | 3 |
| Oxygen | 6 | 2 | 2 |
| Halogen | 7 | 1 | 1 |
| Hydrogen | 1 | 1 | 1 |
Bonds formed equals electrons needed, not electrons already there. Nitrogen has five outer electrons but forms three bonds.
Hydrogen is full with two electrons, not eight. The rule of eight does not apply to it.
Double and triple bonds
If one shared pair is not enough, atoms share more.
- O₂ — each oxygen needs 2, so they share two pairs: a double bond.
- N₂ — each nitrogen needs 3, so they share three pairs: a triple bond.
- CO₂ — carbon forms a double bond to each oxygen, so four shared pairs in total, two to each.
Work out what each atom needs first; the number of shared pairs follows.