Group 1: a family of metals
Lithium, sodium and potassium sit together in Group 1 for a reason that you can watch happen: they all react with water in the same way.
The reaction
metal + water → metal hydroxide + hydrogen
So sodium gives sodium hydroxide and hydrogen. Lithium gives lithium hydroxide and hydrogen. Potassium gives potassium hydroxide and hydrogen.
Same two products every time. That is the evidence they belong together.
Why they are called the alkali metals
The hydroxide produced dissolves, giving an alkaline solution with a pH well above 7. Drop universal indicator into the water afterwards and it turns purple.
That alkaline solution is where the group's name comes from.
The balanced equation
2Na + 2H₂O → 2NaOH + H₂
Two sodium atoms are needed because hydrogen leaves as H₂ molecules, and each water molecule contributes only one hydrogen atom to the gas. Writing H rather than H₂ as the product leaves the equation unbalanced.
What you actually see
With sodium on water:
- It floats — the metal is less dense than water.
- It melts into a ball — the reaction releases enough heat to melt it.
- It fizzes and moves about as hydrogen is produced.
- It gradually disappears as it is used up.
Those are observations. "It is reactive" is a conclusion drawn from them, and a question asking what you see wants the list, not the conclusion.
Answering the family question
If a question asks how these reactions show the metals belong to one family, answer from the reactions, not from electronic structure. Same products, same kind of behaviour, alkaline solution each time.
Electronic configuration explains why they behave alike — but it is not the observed evidence the question asked for.